Four Generations of Playhouse Tradition
Unearthing Mrs. Mildred (Milly) Strobel Wheeler's name in the Playhouse archives revealed a profound legacy intertwined with the theatre's history. A 1957 scrapbook featuring Milly's photograph and playbill bio ignited an emotional journey for the Wheeler family, weaving their past and present in extraordinary ways.
When we shared Milly's photo with her family, her son, Jim Wheeler, immediately recognized her. "That's my mom!" he said, "And that teenager mentioned in the bio? That was my brother, Tom." The discovery brought back fond memories of Milly and her passion for the Playhouse and highlighted the profound, multi-generational ties families can forge with our theatre.
As we celebrate our 110th anniversary, we are proud to share the Wheeler family's story—spanning four generations, from Milly's time on stage to her great-granddaughter Addy, who now performs with us.
The Beginnings
For the Wheelers, Duluth Playhouse is more than a stage; it is a community. Mildred, lovingly known as Milly, and her husband, Hubert Wheeler, were Season Ticket holders who regularly attended performances, creating a rich history of art appreciation in their five children. While not all of her children grew up attending her performances, they recall the strong influence of her passion.
"Our mother valued public speaking and the arts," reflected her daughter, Nancy Wheeler Handlon. "Theatre was something we shared—she and I attended performances together while the boys were at sporting events." This shared love for the theatre, despite individual interests, is a testament to the unifying power of the arts in a family. Nancy also reflected on Milly's love of theatre was built on family tradition. "Our grandfather would take his daughters to shows in Chicago, and I believe that shaped Mom's love for the theatre."
Milly's son, David B. Wheeler, recalled his mother's leadership. "Mom's passion for theatre was contagious. She was very active at the Playhouse; it was a priority. She served as president of Duluth Playhouse Board, helping organize "The Guthrie Goers" in Duluth to make trips down to Minneapolis. The theatre was very dear to her heart."
A Family's Reaction to the Discovery
Seeing Milly's photograph for the first time brought poignant emotions to her family. "I was delighted," Nancy said. "There weren't many photos of Mom as a young woman, and she looked so happy."
For Jim, it was an emotional moment. "I hadn't seen many younger photos of my mom, and certainly none when she was on stage. I was just two when that photo was taken."
Andy Wheeler shared, "I had no idea until this photo was found, but given my father Tom's love of the Playhouse, it was so neat to discover she was also and actor there!" His daughter Addy, who is Milly's great-granddaughter, now graces the Playhouse stage as well. Addy was thrilled to learn of their shared connection. "She thought it was really cool," remarked Andy. "She even noticed a bit of resemblance."
Four Generations of Playhouse Memories
The Wheeler family's involvement with the Playhouse has been rich with cherished memories across the generations.
Jim recalled his own time on stage: "As a child, I played small roles in George Washington Slept Here and Enemy of the People at the Playhouse. My mom loved the theatre. She took us to the Guthrie in Minneapolis and to a Broadway show in New York."
Nancy shared her mother's enthusiasm for theatre, recounting how she took part as a shy sixteen-year-old in a Playhouse production. "I remember the camaraderie. The director, Lynn, was so kind. The theater is a magical place.
For Addy, the backstage camaraderie has created lasting memories. "From spray-painting her hair during Anastasia and realizing the next day at school her hair was still gray, to backstage dance parties in The Sound of Music, to hangout rooms during Annie that made the experience like a day camp," Andy said. "And putting a huge mole on her face before each show of James and the Giant Peach. These are some of our favorite moments that really stand out."
David noted the family's enduring connection. "My older brother Tom played several bit parts at the Playhouse but also served as President of the Board. And now Addy – four generations of Wheeler's on stage! We're all so proud of her."
An amusing antidote from Andy and Becky Wheeler included remembering Addy's first stage production, Singing in the Rain. Tom [Addy's grandfather] was on the board and actually said, "...maybe she's a better fit backstage." Well, he passed before Addy found her confidence and footing, and he would be her greatest champion if he were still around! We laugh each time Addy kills on stage, knowing Tom would be proud. His only viewing of her was when she was new and had a lot to learn. Addy still has a long way to go and grow, but she loves the challenge of new roles and productions!
Carrying the Legacy Forward
Seeing Addy perform has been a delight for the Wheeler family.
"Each show is an opportunity to learn and grow," said Andy. "and the multi-generational tie makes it all the more fun. We love seeing her calmness and ease on stage, especially in humorous roles, but it's her singing and emotion during her serious parts where she surpasses our expectations."
Jim reflected on Addy's growth. "It's been a treat to watch her. My favorite show of all time is The Sound of Music and she had a fabulous role as one of the children. My mom would've been so proud."
The family sees the Playhouse as a vital part of their story. Each generation feels the impact of theatre on their lives, giving them confidence and helping them approach life from a shared perspective.
"I suppose it all started with Mom," said Nancy, "I did some acting in college and then turned to doing stage managing. I was an English major with a concentration in English dramatic literature and reading Shakespeare. Eventually, I felt a call to serve as an ordained minister in the United Methodist Church. My theater background and analysis of literature were both very helpful to me in my ministry."
David reflects, "I have spent most of my professional life as an ordained Methodist minister, usually "on stage" a couple of times a week for nearly 40 years. I have also taught Public Speaking at the college level, so communication has always been at the center of my life. My mom was clearly the inspiration."
"The Playhouse has taught Addy confidence and grace," Becky and Andy shared. "The community is welcoming, and there's truly a place for everyone."
Advice for Future Generations
The Wheeler family's journey is a testament to the enduring power of theatre.
Nancy encourages families to join the Playhouse community. "Theater is a place for people to try new things, experience new ways of thinking, become a part of a community, and experience positive social connections. We need more social connections in this "wired" age. It can also serve as a positive means of effecting social change."
"Theatre has always been a passion," shared David, "Theatre continues to bless us."
Jim echoes this sentiment: "Don't sit on the sidelines. Get involved in some capacity, either onstage, backstage, on the board, passing out programs, or simply donating."
The Legacy Lives On
Andy Wheeler sums it up, "It started with Milly, then Tom's involvement, and now Addy. The art scene in Duluth is extraordinary for its size, and the talent tends to match the lofty productions!"
When asked what keeps the Wheeler family connected to the Playhouse, Jim said, "Definately the sense of community and the vital importance of giving back."
From Milly's early days on stage to Addy's current performances, the Wheeler family embodies the heart of Duluth Playhouse—community, creativity, and connection. Their story reminds us that theatre is more than entertainment; it's a bridge that connects generations and inspires us all to take the stage in our own lives.
